Cuckolds Crave Humiliation 

You are a cuckold because you want it and you know you do. This fetish is a choice for many of those in a cuckolding relationship. Cuckolds need to be forced to watch and sometimes participate in their own humiliation. When you are a cuckold you have asked for everything that is happening to you. While you may not have asked verbally for each and every situation, but you did ask for it. Just by being your pathetic self and not satisfying your wife or girlfriend sexually you made the choice to be cuckolded.  
Now this isn’t always exactly how you thought it would be of course, you need the humiliation of having a hot wife who won’t let you fuck her.

You Know You Deserve It

Humiliation is really the draw for most cuckold husbands. It isn’t the voyeuristic aspect that urges them onward. Though watching is certainly a huge part of being a cuckold it isn’t the bare bones of the need. That need comes from knowing that while all your friends and counterparts at work may see you as so very lucky, after all your wife is much hotter than they would ever have thought you could hang on to.  They just do not know the truth. The truth is that the husband they so admire and think is so fortunate hasn’t had sex with his wife in so long he has almost forgotten what it felt like and she is trying to forget.  Instead she is going out with other men or bringing them home and having sex with them, often right in front of him.  That humiliation, the knowledge that one day she just might bring home one of those men from work is enough to make the cuckold excited. He waits for her to come home and not always in what would be considered husbandly attire.

Dressing up a Cuckold

Cuckolding humiliation can often involve cross-dressing. Many cuckold husbands are forced by their wives to get dressed up in various articles of female clothing. If your wife or girlfriend has to go out and find another man to satisfy her sexually than that means that you are not satisfying her and therefore should not be allowed to consider yourself a man in any situation. The stud who will be fucking her that night is the man in the house and she is of course the sexy woman, so what does that make you? Well you can’t be the man, you either have too small a penis to fuck her properly or you are just not able to use what you have. Some men are well endowed but have no stamina and that is almost as bad, if not worse, than having a tiny dick to begin with.  Either way, you aren’t able to act as the man in the relationship and need to make that clear. That means panties and often stockings and a garter belt, as well as either a bra or a cute little baby doll nightie, as well as ribbons in your hair, high heels, and bright red lipstick.  Showing that not only are you not able to sexually satisfy your wife but you haven’t even earned the right to be called a man. Instead you are the Cross Dressed Cuckie. Sounds adorable doesn’t it? Only it really is quite pathetic and when your wife arrives home with the real man she has found, you will be waiting all dressed up.

Watch or Participate it’s up to the Woman

Dressing up isn’t the final humiliation in cuckolding however. You must also watch and compare yourself. Most often the wife will take her lover into the bedroom where the husband and wife sleep and have sex with him there on the bed. As the cuckold you would either sit to the side, watching silently, not able to rub yourself unless your wife or her lover has given you permission or you would be on the bed as well as a participant. This all depends on what your wife thinks will be the best thing to do. While cuckolds do often ask for the cuckolding to begin, once it has the control is no longer theirs. Instead their wife decides everything. Cuckolds may be required to perform oral sex on their wife while she sucks the dick of the man who is there to fuck her. Knowing how much she is enjoying it, while she moans and sucks, ignoring the cuckold except to grind her pussy against his face. Other times the cuckold will have to clean her out after the stud has cum inside her, making this even more humiliating is if the man stays to watch. Other times the wife will simply ignore the cuckold all together and humiliate him by enjoying herself completely with her lover, making the cuckold completely insignificant.

Humiliation is at the heart of every cuckolding relationship, what form that humiliation takes varies, but the result is always the same, total domination.