What is Cuckolding? 

While you may have heard the word the essence of cuckolding is so much more than its simple definition.  When talking about the basics of cuckolding it seems very much like other forms of infidelity. Cuckolding involves a wife who is having sex with men who are not her husband. Cuckolds are the husbands who sometimes wait at home alone while their wives are out having sex. So far it still sounds very much like a woman who is unsatisfied at home and seeks satisfaction elsewhere, and it is. But in cuckolding the woman is not considered to be an adulteress or a slut or any of the derogatory terms that are often associated with women who fuck men other than their husbands. 

Cuckolding is NOT like Having an Affair

So it is an affair or simply a new love interest or maybe boredom that lures a woman out? Is cuckolding the same thing? Not at all. As I said, cuckolding isn’t as simple as it sounds there are many more layers to cuckolding than simply fucking a man other than your husband. Men who are in cuckold relationships are not being fooled and the women never lie. In fact they are far more honest than many women who stay in marriages, fucking only their husband yet imagining that they had someone else. Women who long for someone to satisfy their desires that their husbands cannot, but don’t do anything about it, are lying. Cuckolding your husband makes you more honest than that.

Cuckolds know everything that is happening. They aren’t being tricked or fooled. All cuckolds are well aware of the fact that their wife has not only stopped having sex with them but is instead having sex with other men. Men who are better able to satisfy her than her husband.  Thus is the essence of cuckolding and what makes it so very different from a woman having an affair.  Cuckolds are told ahead of time that their wife is on her way to meet a lover and many even help her to get ready. Running a hot bath for her and helping her pick out sexy lingerie and clothing, even buying her something new and special for the occasion. After all he might as well do something useful for his wife as it is his entire fault.

It’s Your Own Fault Cuckolds

Cuckold husbands are the ones who often suggest cuckolding in the first place. A cuckold knows his wife is not happy with him and his lack of expertise in the bedroom and wants to do something to help her to be satisfied.   He owes her after all and should make it his business to attempt to do everything he can to satisfy her. He may go so far as to find a man for her who will service her in bed in a way that he cannot. It should be pointed out that not all cuckolds are lacking in penis size though that is often the case. At times they are simply lazy or have become unattractive to t heir wives who are still very sexy and know that in order to hold on to her they must make her happy. Instead being jealous like a man whose wife is having an affair, a cuckold begins to desire the thought of his wife with another man. His cock loses control and gets hard when he thinks of his wife having sex with another man and often begs to be allowed to watch.

Sexually Stimulated by Cuckolding

Cuckolds are excited in many ways by their wife taking another man to bed.  Cuckolding at its core allows the male cuckolded husband to become excited watching his wife having sex with another man. Some cuckolds watch in secret or wish to, while others are very visible and even participate in their own humiliation. The humiliation of a wife who is unsatisfied by his cock is great for a cuckold, but even more so when the male stud she has chosen to have sex with sees him there watching. Often cuckolds will dress up or beg to clean up after their wife has had sex, some even sit in the room masturbating or wanting to while their wife is fuck by a man who can and is satisfying her.

Thus the differences between cuckolding and an affair are vast. Cuckolds are turned on by the humiliation and voyeuristic aspects of cuckolding and often beg to be in this kind of relationship.  They are turned on by it, sexually excited, sometimes even more than they are when they are actually allowed to have sex with their wife.